Category: Dating and Relationships
ok... sorry my computer gave me some sort of a thing telling me msn wanted to close... so my post got cut off... but now back to the question.
Are you a dominate pr a submissive... if your a dom... then why did you choose to be... if you a sub... then why did you choose to be... if not... then what turns you off about trying this type of a relationship?
I personally am a sub... and what made me want to be a sub is the art of serving someone... the knowing that your giving that person everything they need. Your cooking there food... making there coffee... your pleasuring them... and you aren't just using your body to do so.
Hope to hear more about what you all think.
i'm both, because I enjoy giving as well as receiving.
Well, since I date Klingons... What choice do I have, really?
LOL Jim.
I am also both I think. I like being a bit of a dom at times, but I also love pleasing my partner. Although I would never get into extremes regarding being a dom or a sub.
On a serious note, I agree with Becky and Blake.
...interesting comments made by Mr. Frequency...
It depends on the person and the situation as well as my mood. I usually like to dominate though. Although I like to be in control, I love to please the girl as well.
I like to please the girl. I am quiet so it is harder for me to be a dom person.
I think I'd be more submissive, as I wouldn't mind doing things for my guy and am not used to asking too much of others in the first place. But I don't think I'd actually get into the actual lifestyle, as I would not like/want to be given orders all the time and would rather be treated as an equal. I might probably try it out during a relationship, but would not want to have a relationship based on that. In other words, in a relationship in general I'd do that on my own because I wanted to but not because I was expected to by him.
Well said tinkerbell. That's exactly how I feel. I understand there are people who live that lifestyle 24/7, but for me, I would be submissive or dominant if my very special partner asked me to once in awhile, but if he got way too into that lifestyle, that is not a relationship I would stay in.
I'm slightly dominent, but only if the girl wanted it and understood the spirit in which it was meant. I kind of like any girl that I'm with to be able to say, fuck off, I'm not doing it you're being an ass, every once and a while but if she enjoyed and was pleased by my being dominent, I would now and again.
We believe in and practise equality, as one partner assuming dominance over another, just causes resentment which could lead to abuse.
Well, there was this one time in band camp and this girl stuck a, um, nevermind.
Hmm hmm go on we'er all agog
I could care less for either one i am an equal in other words i am more in too equality
I agree Jenni anyone who says I like to be in control, should be avoided like the plague.
hahaha dragonfire you stole the line from the American pie movie! Star PS better to avoid trumpets!
I think domination, and, or submition can be expressed with the body rather than words.
Gentle but firm is best.
In this way, it can be enjoyable for both partners.
Yes, I agree totally.
with me, it would be total domination! Oh yes! Who is your jedi master daddy!?
then again, sometimes, it is okay to be dominated rather than doing the dominating. It depends I guess, what mood the couple is in.
Oh yes,!!!! Ather!!!
I'm your Jedi Master Daddy!!!!!
lol!!!!
I would never want to practice the lifestyle either way, as my preference varies with my mood and too much of either one can get tiring. However, generally speaking, I prefer the guy to be dominant, unless I'm in an especially bitchy mood and need an outlet for it. But again, it should all be kept in context and not taken to extremes.
and don't you ever forget it, Crystal rain!
That's right Crystal Rain put the battarys in that vibrating light saber and make sure maddog can't sit for weeks.
I can never be a dom, how can a person be a document object model? Oh and last time I checked I can't be a sub either, my body just isn't designed to contain the necessary information to be executed as a subroutine in a computer program.
Ather, I won't soon forget it, and what I ment to say was that you, were my Jedi master daddy!!!!!
Now, who's your baby mamma!!!!!?
er, any girl that I'd like to have relations with, I certainly would not call my baby mother...afterall, calling a girl anything with the word "mother" with it, is just wrong.
I get it, at least I kno where I stand.
sarcastic smile